#ibelieveher
Sick
to my stomach
at the thought,
at the ache.
The craters in her heart
all open wounds.
How dare you.
Standing stiff.
A podium
of malicious intent.
Shouting my word is less
than theirs.
It's not just how we felt
the moments after,
memories seared onto
open flesh.
It's that no matter what we do,
kits and forensics,
they don't listen.
Drunk consent is not consent.
Coerced consent is not consent.
No means fucking no.
And I still don't know
how to let them touch me
while knowing
in my soul
it could be him.
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#MeToo
I didn’t say anything when I was eleven and wore a Tinker Bell shirt.
You asked me what it said and tried to touch the breasts I didn’t even know I had.
When I looked scared and tried to pull away you said you were only trying to flirt.
You were older, had a beard, and might have been older than my dad.
At eighteen I had my first sip of vodka and you waited for me to finish it.
“I thought you’d never finish that drink,” you said, and wouldn’t let me walk away.
I felt rude if I left, bad you bought me a drink, and I didn’t want to look like I was having a fit.
You wouldn’t stop texting me when I escaped and you followed me around the next day.
At twenty-three you looked at art with me and waited till the coast was clear.
You had complimented my dress, grabbed my arm, and then pulled me into a vacant space.
I didn’t scream. I didn’t yell, but I pushed hard even as I was drowning in fear.
I punched you and got away, but know I left vowing to never go back to that place.
And now at twenty-seven, I go out less at night and still shake as I recall my tales.
I try to wear a brave face and act as though nothing ever bothers me,
But brave women coming forward and sharing awful encounters about some males
Has given this poet the courage to recall my story and set it free.
Gráinne is a Research Officer, currently finishing up her MA in Renaissance Literature at University College Dublin, focusing on Indian women's writing. She's an avid poet and obsessive cat mom, and hopes to pursue a PhD in Iranian and Irish women's literature in the coming year. She dreams of finishing her novel in the next 12 months.